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Moral education of adolescents, spiritual in the family, school
The moral upbringing of adolescents is largely influenced by the relationship with their parents. But the street and watching TV also instill values in the child.
Moral and spiritual education of adolescents in the family
The transitional age is an important period in the formation of a child’s personality. And parents should pay more attention to raising a teenager than a preschooler. Indeed, despite the apparent “adulthood” of a child, one cannot be called an established personality. And the formation of his character is influenced by many external factors, such as watching TV or playing on a computer.
The moral education of adolescents is strongly influenced by the behavior of parents.
In order for spiritual education to be instilled not on the street or on the Internet, parents need to build the right relationship with their teenager. A rigid dictatorship in the upbringing of a growing person will not help, because at this age he already feels himself as a person. And any encroachment on freedom is perceived with hostility.
But you shouldn’t play democracy with your child either. The teenager needs to be controlled, otherwise he will find himself in unpleasant situations. Therefore, it is important to find a “golden mean” in the relationship with the child. Only then will he perceive you at the same time as a parent and a senior comrade.
How to improve family and school relationships
Children in many ways adopt the habits of their parents, so for the child you must first of all be a role model. Otherwise, your advice and prohibitions are of little use. Basic rules of education:
- Take a direct part in the life of the child. You need to know about everything that worries and pleases him.
- Take an interest in your academic success and your friendships. It is important for a teenager to know that he is not alone.
- Don’t criticize his hobbies or clothing style. Remember that youth fashions are changing rapidly.
- Listen with your mouth closed. Do not comment on your child’s stories unless they ask you to.
- Watch your speech. What is said in “hearts” leaves a huge mark on the soul of a teenager.
- Be patient and don’t give too much weight to your teen’s mood swings. At this age, hormonal surges are not uncommon, which must be treated condescendingly.
- React to being rude. Connivance will not increase your credibility.
- Praise not only your successes, but also your moral qualities.
A lot of time should be devoted to the moral education of a teenager. In adolescence, the child is especially vulnerable and receptive to any information. And it is important that the character of the future adult is formed under the influence of parents, and not the street or the Internet.